His remains are left behind in an unmarked grave.
No headstone.
No paper marker.
No flowers.
No more gifts from his little girl.
An unmarked grave.
One of which you could not find had you not know where it was.
26 years of life.
Is 26 years not enough to merit a rock?
A name plate? A fucking flower?
He himself is not there, this I know.
But I still find it disrespectful to leave his body unknown.
My beautiful angel is left behind in an unmarked grave.
No headstone.
No paper marker.
No flowers.
No more gifts from his little girl.
An unmarked grave.
One of which you could not find had you not know where it was.
26 years of life.
Is 26 years not enough to merit a rock?
A name plate? A fucking flower?
He himself is not there, this I know.
But I still find it disrespectful to leave his body unknown.
My beautiful angel is left behind in an unmarked grave.
Speaking of leaving him there like that...He wouldn't be there if you hadn't left him that day and called an ambulance instead of being selfish in fear of jail time. Which technically you should have to do, you know the truth and so does God. I'll leave it at that. The headstone is paid for and waiting on the picture to be laser inscribed. There is stuff out there all the time. It has been a long time but it's difficult to go thru pictures and I don't have to carry around guilt that I could have saved him.
ReplyDeleteYa'll really are mislead. Sad.
ReplyDeleteMisled?! How would you like it if you didn't know what really happened? Nevermind I'm sure u wish it were that way. U never told the truth and while the cops were asking you questions your brother was telling you to keep your mouth shut and don't say anything. What was there to hide? And while we sat at the funeral home waiting on you, you were at the house taking things. Which you still haven't completely gave up, things he had prior to meeting you! Why were his things missing before they even found his body? Hmmm because you knew already! Yall weren't engaged so quit with the lies.. you were not his fiance and you could have prevented this. Statue of limitations never runs out on something like this so I understand why you still won't be honest but it's messed up. You have kids now should be less of one yourself unlike back then and actually attempt to consider others. It's a shame. So don't tell me about sad... it's sick on your part and beyond sad. I'm done with this and you.... like the letters he wrote. Done. Whooo. Getting things off your chest...try it sometime.
DeleteUhh..memory much?
ReplyDeletewhatever you say bro. thumbs up to you.
a little bit of confusion here though.....y'all were my fucking ride to the funeral home...so how in the shit were y'all waiting on me?
So very very SAD.
Wow.
U rode with us to the actual funeral. But we included you in making the funeral arrangements which was pretty decent on our part considering the circumstances. But instead u chose to go to the house and take things..and NOT YOUR things!! HIS THINGS! YOU KNOW WHAT ELSE IS SAD...U HOOKED UP WITH MY BROTHERS FRIEND WHO WE REQUESTED TO SPEAK AT THE FUNERAL...BUT U LOVED HIM SO MUCH YOU MOVED IN WITH ONE OF HIS BEST FRIENDS THE WEEK WE BURIED HIM AND DATED HIM ALMOST A YEAR...THAT'S LOVE. You're so called soulmate. I'm so sure. Move on and remember yalls short amount of time yall spent arguing and him trying to leave you while pitifully threatened to kill yourself. Maybe he should have let u and he would still be here. But he wasn't selfish like you. Pleaae talk somemore crap I have some pics maybe your family should see since u thought we needed to see your nasty self. Maybe everyone should.
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ReplyDeleteDear Anonymous-You're Sad. And sound like a jacksass.
Dear Anonymous,
ReplyDeleteThey were engaged and the fact that you claim they were not shows that you are a liar. Also, the fact that you take this long to start getting the headstone done shows how unimportant Loma Kahl was to you so shut your mouth when talking to the one person who loved him more than anything else on the planet simply has a blog from 6 years ago. He obviously meant nothing to you and you just need a reason to stir drama in your life, we have wonderful memories with him and will cherish those. You don't even know what his life was before he left so it's proof you didn't care enough to know him at all. Take your hate elsewhere. Or maybe your upset because he didn't care as much for you as he did his fiance. Either way, leave her alone. He loved her and she loved him. We all saw it.
If he was your world and you loved him so much then why haven't you done anything about the tombstone? And why just sit here and talk shit? Why not keep his memory alive in a positive way instead of blasting his family? That makes no sense to me. You've obviously moved on you have kids now. They haven't replaced the brother/son that they lost as you have so all of this is a bit strange to me. When someone passes away it should bring people together,teach you about loving every moment with the ones you love bc you never know how much time you will have with anyone. Hell your not guaranteed tom. None of us are. So my advice for what it's worth to yall is instead of causing "drama" in your own way learn to accept this as a tragedy. Get rid of your hurt feelings over a marker for a grave that holds what used to be that person. Nothing more. His soul is in heaven.
ReplyDeleteYou're ill-informed comment leaves nothing but confusion.
ReplyDelete1. This, would be MY blog. So how exactly did I start the drama when they came to MY blog to comment? Thumbs up.
2. The post that was commented on, was from 2010. You know-6 years ago. So...yeah Whatever "hurt feelings" I had over the tombstone-I don't have anymore. Oh-but when I was upset about it--you damn sure wouldn't find me creeping on someone's blog at 3am in the freaking morning just to talk shit.
3. When Loma left-it DID bring US together. I can't speak for the other "really special" people he had in his life. You know, the kind of people that go out of their way to talk shit.
4. I was given VERY STRICT instructions to NOT get a tombstone. From his family. And since I OBVIOUSLY have more sense and manners, I respected their wishes.
5. I admire your love of "anonymous". You stood up for them in a respectful manner. I sincerely appreciate that.
I'm still confused about how I "caused drama" when I was minding my own business...but anyway...
I found this stupid blog looking for the article from when he was missing. U know the one with the pic of him and the hat u still have for some reason. U are on here making people feel sorry for you but they don't know the truth. Nobody does but u. But i do know he told u to leave for several months but never did til the day he needed you there regardless
DeleteNothing to him? The last words to him were I love you and said the same everytime we hung up the phone. Always have. Not just said it knew we both truly meant it and got it in return. U know nothing. Who doesn't love their family? Idiot. He was on drugs and drank constantly I'm sure that looked like love. But I have the letters where he wanted her gone and she always threatened to kill herself. Ask her dad he came out there to check on her several times because she did it every time. Engaged? Bahahaha a secret engagement that's legit. Not a single family member knew not his Bigmama, sister, mother, father, step father, brother, daughter, or any true friends that he had prior to the leaches him met during the short drug affliation. He loved his family more than anything and was willing to get rid of her because he knew we didn't agree he never dated coke heads and had plenty options out there. But fell for her suicide act. Smh. Little didn't we know it was a negligent homicide act
DeleteLynn is just another pathetic troll. She knows nothing of how his life brought everyone together or how awful his family was to his fiance. She is a waste of time. Just another sad excuse of a woman trying to make another woman feel bad about herself.
ReplyDeleteNo ring no engagement announcement. SHE WAS NOT HIS FIANCÉ!!!!! or he was ashamed to tell us. Nobody was awful to her..he sold her drug of choice and got him on it too. He never did that crap before. He hated drugs even pot. Guess he thought he could save her he had a big heart. But when it came time to saving him leaving was her option... When she had that option for 6 months and never would take it. You must not know the story we were told and what factual info proves different.
DeleteThats not my intention what so ever so your the waste of time. I do know the family very well in fact and I see they're pain and suffering over this everyday I wasn't trying to make anyone feel bad about themselves I was simply confused as to why someone passing away brings out so much anger. I've recently lost a loved one and its made our family stronger. Even the ones who arent technically blood but still considered family. And you anonymous shut your mouth. She clearly didn't need you taking up for her she spoke well enough for herself. I stated my confusion and she explained.
ReplyDeleteOh and let's keep in mind here...I'm not afraid to use my real name while your here calling me pathetic 😂
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