Stop letting what happens in other people lives have an affect on you. 

It's THEIR life. Not yours. Why do you worry so much about what is going on?

You know most things occur behind close doors. So your constant judging and worry is just......weird.

It's their situation. Why do you feel the need to understand it so much?

Not everything in this lifetime will be understood. Matter of fact--most things are to difficult to understand. 

Live. YOUR. Life.