If complaints made money, and ramblings got attention-I'd be a popular rich kid. Huh?

She complains. Almost as if she's getting paid to complain. She whines. Almost as if she loves to be a victim.

She hates her job. She has no respect. Her friends never call. Everyone's too busy for her. Why won't he love her? He cause her so much pain. She can't work with this much personal heartache happening. She's having a tough time being a single parent. She is lonely. Her mom gets on her nerves. Her brother is so hateful. That girl lied to her. And her back hurts. 

She hates change. She hates being vulnerable. She hates hypocrites. She hates judgmental people. She hates that the world still turns when her life is frozen.

Biiiitch. Shut. The Fuck. Up.
Grow a pair of fucking balls, stop whining all the time about situations YOU keep putting yourself in. Stop being such a drama queen about the same asshole you keep taking back.  And quit fucking crying because you aren't the center of your friends' world. 
They ain't yo momma, they aint yo daddy, they have their own shit going on. 
Fix yourself bitch. Be a better person. And seriously-just shut up.

It's not her fault. She'll tell you.
Her parents didn't hug her. Her boyfriends never stayed. Her co-workers make things difficult. The fights are never her fault, so she will never make the first move.

Boo. Fucking. Hoo.


You think you're the only one who didn't have perfect parents?
--You're 32.  Time to find another excuse.
You think you're the only person in the world who doesn't like going to work?
--Step up, Shut up, or FIND ANOTHER JOB.
You think no one else has been through heartache?
--Have you watched Lifetime at all? 
You feel like you are the only one to ever feel as lonely as you do right now?
--Uhh..conceited much? You're so attention starved that you'll try to win the "I'm lonelier" game?
You think you're the only single mother out there who is struggling?
--You don't know what it's like to truly struggle as a single parent. You've actually got support. Plus- that kid is easy, even as a first time parent you know that.
You think that you've listened to your friends every time they needed you?
--Come on now girl. You must know how selfish you are...right? 
You even try to complain about your job?
--Wait-you mean the job that was handed to you?  The job that allows you to do whatever? The job-that you yourself-did not earn? That job? Yeah. Ok. Must be tough.

LIFE is happening. ADULTHOOD is happening
Things around her are changing. People around her are changing. She is resisting. But why? 
My guess...she's a comfortable, lazy, spoiled, brat.

It's time she admits.
It's time she let go.
It's time she step up and do something, anything.

To become a better person-she needs to realize what she's doing.
She is a spoiled brat that has had everything handed to her. She claims to be "better" than her brother because  "she knows she's spoiled and doesn't take advantage of it". Come again?  
She repeatedly chases good people away, and begs the bad ones to come back. Of course she expects you to listen to her bitch about their abuse. She gets offended when people don't ask her the right questions. They're supposed to know her better than that. Read her mind. Listen to her all the time. Know her story. Follow her life. Oh-but don't expect the same in return. She's busy. Busy in her own little bubble. She's aging right in front of herself and she can't figure out why. 
Maybe the self-inflicted pain? Or maybe the self-induced drama? She's drowning in her own self-pity. She wants her job to just easily fall into place..without struggle, without conflict, without discussion. Just add some zeros onto the back of her check and she'll be happy. She's been reckless with friendships and expected so much, but gave so little. 

Every. Single. Thing. She. Has. Ever. Complained. About. Another. Person. Doing......She's. Done. And/Or Doing. 
1. She's such a bitch for lying to me.                                    Hmmm..you don't say?
2. She's just putting on a front-you know she's doing something bad.   Come in black pot...kettle  to pot I repeat...
3. It's fucking immature the way she chases all that drama.   Mirror much?
4. I'm alone at work cause they all took off.             What were you saying about that four day weekend again?
5. My mom is just so..ugh. She can't handle stress well.        Apples do fall from trees right?
6. She could do so much better than him.                            riiiiiiggghtt. We'll just leave that special one alone. 

She's difficult. She's hardheaded. She's rude. She's demanding. She expects everything. She requires all of your attention. And you'll need to put dinner on hold when she calls. You're going to need to tell her she's funny. Tell her she's pretty, and smart, and creative. She needs companionship at the times of her choice. She can never ever be ignored. 

Be gentle though you guys. I personally vouch for her. She honestly means well and has good intentions. She's just stuck at the moment. She is having a hard time with this adulthood thing, but she's trying very hard. (or just kinda hard) She is not living the life that she thought she'd be living by now, and she's embarrassed. She's coping. She's learning. She knows she's got a lot of growing up to do. So please-go easy on her. Don't sugar coat things for her. Her life has been sugar-coated. That's why when it gets real--she gets flustered. Don't count her out yet. 

She's real. She tough. She's sincere. She's putting a huge effort into this. And she's sorry. 




FUCK. Longest apology ever. 
probably because my parents didn't hug me........      wink.    too soon?

Comments